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September 19, 2009

Former POWs honor the missing at breakfast

By CAROL COMEGNO
Courier-Post Staff

Six men in different military uniforms marched to a table, circled it and then stood at attention as bagpipes played a somber "Amazing Grace."

They never sat down but instead placed a service hat on the black place settings in front of them with the chairs remaining empty.

The table and the hats served as memorials for members of the five U.S. branches of the service and also for civilians who became either prisoners of war or were declared missing in action in various wars or conflicts.

This Missing Man Table ritual was the emotional highlight of the 8th annual POW/MIA Recognition Ceremony breakfast attended by 568 veterans, active duty military, family members and others and which was sponsored by Assemblyman Jack Conners, D-Camden, at the Merion Caterers on Route 130.

A dozen POWS from different eras attended the breakfast and were recognized Friday on National POW/MIA Day of Remembrance, but they all had received medals previously.

The two state POW/MIA recognition medals awarded Friday were given posthumously to family members of World War II Army POW Joseph Muoio of Scotch Plains and Oscar Mauterer, a missing pilot from Union who was shot down over Laos in 1966.

"Emotions run high because you realize you are representing -- in my case, the Navy -- all the men and women lost from that service," said retired Navy captain Walter Urban of Medford, who served as one of the six honor guards for the ceremony.

"You are honored to represent such a distinguished group that we owe so much to; each branch had its share of sorrow and losses throughout the wars our country has fought."

Aubrey Slimm Jr., 89, of Moorestown, one of the 12 ex-POWs at the ceremony and a retired RCA truck driver, said the event is a chance to "look back and to also see other people who've been there like you."

Slimm was a sergeant, a waist gunner and a POW during World War II who was captured after his bomber, a B-17, crashed in Germany in March 1944. After being shifted from one prisoner of war camp to another, he said he was liberated in May 1945 from Stalag Luft IV in Gross Tychow, Poland.

"I always thought I would survive and we were fortunate we were used as forced labor," Slimm said. "The worst part was being shipped from camp to camp."

He said the food was "lousy," mostly German dark bread and birdseedlike cereal that resulted in his weight dropping from 180 to 118 pounds.

Al Rodesky of Oaklyn, another table honor guard at the Missing Man Table, said those still missing in action or captured and never returned need to be found and their remains repatriated back to American soil.

"I believe that those unaccounted for deserve closure for their families and by continual public awareness like this we make sure they are not forgotten.

The Department of Defense has an ongoing mission to find and identify remains, said Tony Halas of West Deptford, emcee and ceremonial chairman for the POW/MIA awareness Committee of Camden and Gloucester counties.

"The DOD is working hard to bring back those left behind and spending 40 to 60 days at a time in the field," he told the audience.

Halas said six more soldiers from across the U.S. were brought back on Sept. 2, further reducing the number of POW/MIA's from the Vietnam War to 1,731. The figure was initially 3,600 for that war, which started more than 40 years ago.

He encouraged attendees to "go out and tell somebody what you've seen here" today,

Since World War I nearly 100,000 military personnel have been either prisoners of war or missing in action, according to defense department figures, with 78,000 in World War II alone.

Assemblyman Jack Conners, the sponsor of legislation that created the state POW/MIA medal, said he is amazed at how the event has grown in attendance from 90 the first year to nearly 600. Others there attributed it to a greater display of patriotism since 9/11 and the start of the Iraq war.

Conners said POW/MIAs have endured conditions "most of us would prefer not to think about" and their loved ones have faced "immeasurable" grief.

"The courage of both must never be forgotten, and I am proud to hold this event to bring awareness to their sacrifices."

Joseph O'Donnell of Robbinsville, another former POW from World War II, was in the same war camp in Germany as Slimm after also being shot down in a B-17, but was then forced to march for 86 days over 600 miles across that country to another camp in western Germany.

"I attributed my survival to positive thinking and the fact that we were Americans! I considered myself the arrogant airman," chuckled O'Donnell, 85, who spent a year in captivity. "The British used to say we were "over here, overpaid and oversexed.' "

Reach Carol Comegno at (609) 267-9486 or ccomegno@courierpostonline.com

 

 

Candlelight Ceremony April 17th, 2009 at "The Wall That Heals" - American Legion Post 372 in Cherry Hill, NJ.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tony Halas - TONYHALAS4@aol.com   / Bob Jonas bjonas@co.gloucester.nj.us

Sue Quinn-Morris squinn9807@aol.com